After months of searching for a midwife/doctor who would not only take me as a patient but also subscribe to my birth philosophy, I'm happy to say we've found one! Because of my previous history with HELLP syndrome and then the resultant C-section, it was impossible to find a midwife willing to help me with a home birth which was my ideal preference. The midwife I was in communication with paired me up with a local doctor (actually in the same practice as the doctor who delivered Landon by c-section) who suggested they co-manage my case. This would mean I would receive midwifery care throughout the pregnancy and then when it was time to deliver the baby, I would enter the local hospital where I would try for a VBAC (vaginal birth after cesarean). The two obstacles I faced were the necessary permission from the doctor's partners (did they feel comfortable with her taking me on?) and the local hospitals typically not allowing for VBACs (so any VBAC would be AMA - against medical advice). Unfortunately, the obstacles were enough to prevent this idea from working out. I found myself at a dead end with no midwife, no doctor, no prenatal care and feeling the pressure of time working against me as I was already 23 weeks along.
After speaking to a local midwife about my case and getting her valuable advice, she recommended a doctor associated with Concord Hospital. At first, I wasn't so keen on traveling all the way to Concord (not when home seemed the best distance for me), but being desperate at this point, I called the office. Getting in touch with someone at Concord Women's Care, I quickly made an appointment, if for nothing else than to get my initial prenatal blood test done and an ultrasound set up before this baby got too big! Michael and I went to meet the doctor there and instantly knew we were in the right place. The doctors there encourage VBACs as much as medically possible, and my previous diagnosis of HELLP didn't scare them off. Because the VBAC was very important for me to try, I knew this was the place I would deliver. Concord Hospital is a top-notch hospital and one of only a few hospitals in the United States given the certification of being a "Baby Friendly" hospital (something to do with its great breastfeeding program). I hear rave reviews about The Family Place (the name they've given their maternity ward), and I look forward to touring it soon.
After finally having my initial blood tests (which were great), an ultrasound was set up. With bated breath we waited for the day we would find out whether this baby was a girl or boy. Though we did not find out with the last two boys and each one was a wonderful surprise when they popped out, we figured this one might just be a girl and that just might be something worth knowing about ahead of time. Yesterday was the big day, and we not only found out it was a seemingly healthy baby (and only one at that, thank goodness!) with ten fingers and toes, but...drum roll please....IT'S A BOY! Again! LOL We had to ask the technician if she was sure, and she showed us the proof-positive evidence - there was no mistaking the little appendage that proved beyond a doubt this was no girl. As Michael apologized for not providing the necessary X chromosome yet again, I had to lay there and laugh. So there may not be any pink in our near future, but you must agree once you get past the alien-like appearance of every sonogram photo, he's a beautiful boy, isn't he?
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